{"id":1465,"date":"2021-11-17T09:00:43","date_gmt":"2021-11-17T09:00:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/?p=1465"},"modified":"2022-11-11T14:33:25","modified_gmt":"2022-11-11T14:33:25","slug":"a-message-to-those-struggling-with-mental-illness-part-one","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/a-message-to-those-struggling-with-mental-illness-part-one\/","title":{"rendered":"A Message to Those Struggling With Mental Illness \u2013 Part One"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-4334\" src=\"https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/5-Ad-1080x1080-1-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/5-Ad-1080x1080-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/5-Ad-1080x1080-1-1030x1030.jpg 1030w, https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/5-Ad-1080x1080-1-80x80.jpg 80w, https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/5-Ad-1080x1080-1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/5-Ad-1080x1080-1-36x36.jpg 36w, https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/5-Ad-1080x1080-1-180x180.jpg 180w, https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/5-Ad-1080x1080-1-705x705.jpg 705w, https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/5-Ad-1080x1080-1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>The children of a friend of mine are taking him to task because apparently, he was a dictatorial father.<br \/>\nI know enough about his family dynamics to know that he did everything within his power to raise and train his children such that they would become productive members of society.<br \/>\nHe brought them up as a single parent. He worked full time, yet he was still a full time dad.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I vividly remember the custody battle with his ex-wife. He was so incensed by the possibility of his kids being taken away from him that he was prepared to contemplate the unthinkable.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Both of his children are now professionals earning far above the average salaries of those in their age group. Yet, faced with the complexities of life, they engaged a shrink who convinced them that their inability to handle life\u2019s complexities was the result of their upbringing rather than their failure to develop the mental and moral vigour needed to cope with life\u2019s trials.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><b>Life is Difficult\u00a0<\/b><\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_4248\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4248\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4248\" src=\"https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Image_Nineteen-300x200.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Image_Nineteen-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Image_Nineteen-1030x687.jpeg 1030w, https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Image_Nineteen-768x512.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Image_Nineteen-1536x1024.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Image_Nineteen-2048x1366.jpeg 2048w, https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Image_Nineteen-1500x1000.jpeg 1500w, https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Image_Nineteen-705x470.jpeg 705w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-4248\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">There are always difficult choices in life<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At every stage of our lives, we are faced with different layers of complexities. Coping with each layer of complexity requires different skills.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The problem many face is not being equipped with the requisite skills to navigate the different phases of their lives.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are three categories of mentally ill people.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Category one comprises severely mentally impaired individuals. Those people are incapable of navigating the complexities of life no matter how hard they try.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Those in this category deserve our goodwill, sympathy, prayers, and help.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But they are in the minority.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The second category include those unfortunate individuals who have either become mentally ill or erroneously classed as such through continued interaction with disingenuous shrinks. These unfortunate people have been deemed mentally ill by unscrupulous shrinks who desire nothing more than to increase their clientele and benefit their pockets.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Category three are those simply suffering from chronic shitty life syndrome.\u00a0 Like my friend\u2019s kids, they simply lack the ability to navigate the complexities of life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Those in category one require professional help. As I am not trained in the field, my only hope is that they will get the help of genuine trained professionals who have love for helping others.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But from where I stand, I can only pray for them and advise them to pray for themselves. There is a master physician who cures all sickness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For those in categories two and three, please read part two of this article series, I will outline some steps you can take to get control of your life and once again become a productive member of society.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The children of a friend of mine are taking him to task because apparently, he was a dictatorial father.\u00a0<br \/>\nI know enough about his family dynamics to know that he did everything within his power to raise and train his children such that they would become productive members of society.\u00a0<br \/>\nHe brought them up as a single parent. He worked full time, yet he was still a full time dad.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4303,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1465","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1465","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1465"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1465\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4472,"href":"https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1465\/revisions\/4472"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4303"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1465"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1465"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.romeorichards.com\/healthcare-reforms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1465"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}